Below are some tips on how to perform different sex activities safely.
Anal sex
Active participant (Top)
If you enter someone anally, you are the active person or top. You run a very high risk of contracting HIV and other STIs if you do not wear a condom when engaging in this type of sex. The mucous membrane of the anus and rectum is not that strong and tears easily, making it easier for bacteria to enter. Anal sex has a higher risk of passing on STIs.
TIPS
- Use a condom!
- Use a lubricant! The anus is tighter than the vagina leading to more friction. As the anus does not produce moisture, using a lubricant is appropriate.
- Your penis must be hard if you want to have active intercourse. Stop penetration if your penis is no longer hard, the condom may slip off.
- Take your time and start rimming or licking the anus. It will help the passive person to relax.
- If a condom breaks, contact our doctors!
- Have your anus checked occasionally by a doctor. You can have this done at Violett for free.
Passive participant (Bottom)
If someone enters you anally, you are the passive person or bottom. You run a very high risk of contracting HIV and other STIs if you have anal sex without a condom. The mucous membrane of the anus and rectum is not that strong and tears easily, thus making it easier for bacteria to enter. Anal sex has a higher risk of passing on STIs.
TIPS
- Use a condom!
- Use a lubricant! The anus is tighter than the vagina leading to more friction. As the anus does not produce moisture, using a lubricant is appropriate.
- Take your time to let the penis come in. If necessary, start with rimming or fingering. Stop if it requires too much effort.
- If a condom breaks, contact our doctors!
- Have your anus checked occasionally by a doctor. You can have this done at Violett for free.